 The Sisterhood of the Traveling PantsMPAA Rating:
 for thematic elements, some sensuality and languageReviewed by: Nicole Richardson Primary Audience:
Kids, Teens
Genre:
Drama, Based on Novel, Teenage
Length:
1 hr. 59 min.
Year of Release:
2005
     Relevant Issues
 Films in this series
“The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” (2005) “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2” (2008) Dating and love
How far is too far? What are the guidelines for dating relationships? Answer My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don’t want to lose him. What should I do? Answer Should I save sex for marriage? Answer  Laugh. Cry. Share the pants. “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants,” based on the book of the same name by Ann Brashares, is the story of 4 friends and an amazing summer that they spend apart. Carmen, Tibby, Lena, and Bridget have literally known each other their whole lives (their mothers were in a prenatal aerobics class together) and are the best of friends. They have seen each other through divorce, death, and all of the fun and pains of adolescent years. Now, they are about to spend their first summer separated. Carmen is going to visit her out-of-state father, Lena is headed to Greece to spend time with her grandparents, Bridget is headed to soccer camp in Mexico, and Tibby is holding down the homefront working at a Wal-Mart-like store in their hometown of Bethesda, Maryland. Before the young women go their separate ways, they come across a pair of jeans in a thrift store that, amazingly enough, fits all of them perfectly, even though they are very different in size and shape. They decide that those jeans are meant to be shared, so they agree to each wear the jeans for one week, then mail them to the next girl. While wearing the jeans, the girls have incredible experiences and learn a lot more about themselves and each other. This movie was low on offensive content. There were about three uses of the a** word and the exclamation “Oh my G_ _!” was used three times (once in Spanish). There was a scene in the movie where Carmen crosses herself because they were in a “sacred” place (the aerobics room where their mothers met), but the character did not mean it disrespectfully. The girls entered the locked building after hours, but this aspect is downplayed and not actually relevant to the scene. There is some hint at the magical, mystical properties of the jeans since it fit all four girls, but again, this is downplayed and after a brief mention in one scene, isn’t really brought up again. *SPOILER* The main thing that parents have to be aware of in this movie is that one of the girls is very flirty and enticing towards a young man that she encounters over the summer and loses her virginity with him. They do not show any nudity or excessive touching; the only thing that the audience sees is kissing (there is kissing shown in a few scenes, but it is not extreme). The good thing about how the movie handles the girl’s sexual encounter is that it is not seen as a positive thing or treated as if it is no big deal. The girl is shown to have much regret over what happened. The Bible is very clear on premarital sex. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 tells us to “flee fornication.” Although society has made sex acceptable, as long as it is “safe,” God’s word is a higher authority than man’s. With regards to flirting and excessive kissing/petting, the Bible even cautions us in 1 Thessalonians 5:22-23 to “abstain from the appearance of evil.” We should not even do things that tiptoe around the doorstep of evil. God is righteous and holy in all of His ways (Psalm 145:17), and we should strive to be righteous as well. Jenna Boyd gives a wonderful performance as Bailey, the pre-teen that Tibby befriends while stuck at home working and making her “suckumentary” (a documentary about the pointlessness of life). Their relationship is amazing and some of the scenes between these two young actresses actually wrung some tears out of me — and I don’t cry easily in movies. Bailey was a true example of how to approach life, even when life throws you a curve. She is an amazing young actress. Overall, I really enjoyed this movie. I can completely relate to it, since I grew up with two best friends who are still as close to me as sisters. I know that they always have my back and they know the same about me. I enjoyed the friendship that the four characters shared, and I especially loved the line where one of the girls (Carmen) comments on the fact that she could not vent her anger to her father, but she had no problem blowing up on Tibby. Tibby promptly responds that Carmen knows she’ll always love her, no matter what. That is a beautiful thing. I love the growth that all four girls showed over the summer and the positive feelings that the movie invoked. Mothers will enjoy taking their daughters, but just be mindful that you probably need to follow the movie with a discussion of intimacy and premarital sex. See list of Relevant Issues — questions-and-answers. Violence: None / Profanity: Minor / Sex/nudity: Mild Year of Release — 2005 / USA release date: June 1, 2005 (wide)   Comments below:
Positive
Positive - My teenage daughter and I just got back from viewing this movie.
It is a very good movie! We both liked it a lot. There were not any
scenes where I kind of squirmed, like I do in so many of them. There was
nothing objectionable at all. The one scene where you knew that one of the
characters had had sex, she was unhappy because of it. there was no nudity
or any hint of it. The theatre was full of teenage girls, and I think all teenage girls (and their moms) will like this movie! Positive - I went to it this show last night with 3 of my dearest girlfriends-we are in our 40's & have read all 3 of the traveling pants books. The movie is sweet & tenderhearted throughout. As mother’s with
young girl’s 11 & under we agreed that there was too much skin
exposure in the characters-although nothing really happens sexually; one
of the 4 girls' dresses a bit skimmpily trying to attract a guy. All in all we enjoyed it but weren’t sure how we’d react if we hadn’t read the books; since it does jump around a lot. Positive - Given the flood of trash that flows out of Hollywood, it was
good to see a movie that presents positive morals and worldviews. With
that said, be aware that there are some scenes that are mildly
objectionable (the young ladies stand around in their underwear, offscreen
sex with a minor). What I like most about this is that even though one
character, Bridget, makes some very poor choices, the message that is sent
regarding her choices is “this is wrong.” In fact, she confesses
herself that her choices, despite being what she wanted, have left her
empty. Her remorse is wrenching to watch. Positive - This was a great movie! I saw it with a friend and it really brightened my day. There was only very mild language; I think there were three or four swear words in the whole movie, which is mild compared to
most movies these days. It is a cute movie that will make you laugh, cry,
and really gets you involved with the characters and the heartwarming
storyline. However, I would encourage parents to exercise caution when
sending their pre-teens or children to see it, since there is one scene
where one of the characters strips down to her underclothes to go swimming
(and a boy later jumps in beside her). It switches scenes quickly. But
the fact that they added that scene into the movie was very disappointing
to me, because other than that scene, there is hardly anything objectionable about this movie. Also, I would like to note that the book (at least the first in the series) has more objectionable content than the
movie (such as more cussing, including the use of Jesus' name in vain).
So be careful when considering whether or not to buy the books…still,
good movie, definitely better than average, it is a wonderful story with very lovable characters!! And the book is great too, the only thing I wish is that the language was not present like it is. Positive - I honestly thought the movie was much better than the books! …I was one of the few really waiting for the movie to come out. It was great how the movie stayed down to earth. It was something that all
people can relate to. I loved the movie and the books, just don’t let younger teens read the books. They can be a bit uncomfortable in places. Positive - I thought the producers of this movie were very discreet with
the “touchy” subject of Bridget losing her virginity. I was
very comfortable watching this delightful movie with my 14 year old
daughter. I didn’t like the use of the words a-- and h---. But other
than these words used a few times it was a descent movie. I laughed, I
cried, & I enjoyed this movie to the end. Negative
Negative - This movie experience was eerily like reliving the wife AND the
teenage daughter’s PMS bouts. You helplessly try to comfort them while
secretly hoping the PMS ebbs soon so you can finish watching the ballgame.
A total humorless chick flick that men will not in anyway relate to. I
was the only male in the theater, and realized way too late that the men
not attending knew what they were doing. Comments from young people
Positive - This is a movie I would suggest taking a daughter or niece to. It shows the friendships girls make. Though a true chick flick (who wouldn't cry?) this movie has moral similiar to that of Christianity. The choices the girls make will last a lifetime. And they thought before acting, wise beyond their years. A heartwarming flim that makes you never
want to leave the theatre. Negative - This movie was soooo predictable! It showed absolutley NO relationship between mother and daughter. Tha families seemed dysfunctional too. It was also unrealistic. I play soccer and no one dresses like the girls at the soccer camp did, which was very showy and
slutty. Her one goal at a soccer camp was to have sex with this boy. Her dancing was very innapropriate, too. Positive - I loved this movie! It was so good. At first when I found out
the one girls wanted sex so badley from her soccer coach I was
dissapointed but after the fact when she was writing a letter to her
friend she wrote about sex was not fulfilling! It wasn’t what she thought
it would be and regreted it, they didn’t make it ok they showed the
effects it has on you, the downside of sex before marriage. I was really
impressed with how they portrayed sex. You don’t see that from Hollywood
very often. Positive - I thought that it was the best movie. I thought that it was sad in the scenes where Tibby and Bailey are together. Overall, I think it was excellently made and I would definitely see it again! Positive - This movie was good over all. I will say it was very sad in most
parts. There was a a girl that though they did not show it was said to
have sex. But they never said that, so it will not be understood by youger
girls. They keeped it clean for the most part and made it so every girl
can enjoy it. Positive - My first comment is to read the book before you see the movie. Second comment is that this movie is incredibly touching. The four girls are unique and yet so much like many of us 16 year old girls. Tibby (my
personal favorite) is brash and oppinionated, indignant, positive no ones
life is as bad as hers. Until she meets Bailey that is… Bridget is
wild, completely absorbed in getting what she wants, including the 19 year
old soccer coach she can’t have, determined to win, no matter the cost.
Lena is introverted to a fault, while she completely loves her friends,
she has trouble opening up to anyone else. And Carmen, sassy and
self-centered, I personally thought while she brought flavor, she was
really just a spoiled brat running her life into ruts trusting someone
will pull her out. Negative - I went to see this movie with a friend and we were very excited,
since it looked great on tv. (I had not read the books, but she had)I will
be 15 in a week and saw it not to long ago. I was appauled that a movie
that looked so sweet and innocent could have so many “things” in
the movie. God says in the Bible to not have sex before marriage and in
the movie you know when she gives up her virinity. When her friends find
out, the mistake and sin is not pointed out. Instead, they just try to
make it seem ok. There was also lots of kissing and one of the characters
disobeyed her grandparents just to be with a guy. There were some sad and
funny parts, but that didn’t excuse the many flaws and disappointments.
There were no morals, and I felt sad that there were younger girls
watching it that didn’t know the Lord. Most weren’t even over the age of
12. What were they to think? I would never recommend this to anyone or
see it again! Positive - I saw this movie with my best friends and we all thoroughly
enjoyed it. This movie really touched our hearts and made us value our
close friendships with each other. This movie also made us think about
stupid decisions we’ve made and thought about making. We could relate to
each girl in the movie and enjoyed the diverse characters. Girls: grab
your friends and head to the movies…this movie is worth your time! Positive - My friends and I are fans of these books, so we were all excited
when the movie came out. We went to see it as soon as we could. I was
afraid it would be cheesy, but it was actually good and followed the book
very closely. There are a lot of positive things, like one of the girl’s
relationship with a younger girl Bailey. Bailey is a very positive person
about life even though she has lots of reasons to complain. The girls all
are very close friends even though they are very different and they care
about each other. There are some skimpy clothes, and you see a few girls
in their underwear, and there’s a sex scene implied. However, it isn’t
viewed as a good thing and the girl involved regrets it. Overall I really
liked this movie and it’s a good girls-night-out movie to see! Negative - I really wish I had read this review all the way through before watching it with my cousin and ten year old sister. I came very close to walking out in the middle of the movie. I was glad there wasn’t a lot of language, but I was very disappointed in some of the other scenes. At one part Lena take off her shirt and skirt to go swimming, and her boyfriend joins her. I also didn’t like the way Bridget acted during the movie. She kinda threw herself on this one guy and follows him around even though as a coach, he’s “off limits.” She seems to take this as a
challenge and like him all the more for it, and the only reason she likes him is because he’s cute. I really did like the part about Tibby and Bailey, the little girl. Bailey always made the most of every moment. I
really wish I lived that way. It was a cute story and well made, there
were just unnecessary things added in. So parents, I ask that you don’t
send your little kids to watch this… It really bugged me and my sister. Positive - I saw this movie thinking that It was going to be the best movie ever. There was some content that wouldn’t fit kids under the age of 10. I found myself crying through out the movie. I also laughed a little. Over all it was an ok movie. Nothing surprised me that much though. |
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