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I thought I could stand by him through anything - but not this
"I Thought He Was Innocent"
   —by Patricia, age 50

It is now 10 weeks since I discovered my husband’s visits to brothels. After 7 years of marriage I thought I could stand by him through anything - but not this. Unfortunately his symptoms of sexual addiction were there when I first met him 8 years ago - but I just couldn’t see - e.g. he used to tell me he was feeling like sex all the time.

Three years ago he lost his job through sexual harassment charges - I believed he was innocent, bailed him out, sat by him in court and paid his legal expenses!

A year later I discovered that he had been borrowing my mobile phone to ring sex hotlines. I still believed his innocence - he used to tell me that the phone company has made a mistake on my bill and would set up a “false call” with the phone company to prove his innocence.

After 2 years of living in “deception” and the day before my 50th birthday (and he is 14 years younger to top off the insult on that day) I was checking my phone bill and found some more strange numbers…


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